Has anyone ever gotten a question violation email.?

last night i asked a question about how mother inlaws act, and i said we had a fight and we got in each others face well i said some mean stuff and so did she well apparently someone took it the wrong way and reported it ,I had like 8 responses and I was about to pick a best answer but I got a violation do they ever reinstate the question because i dont think it was offensive and neither did the people answering it .